Ceremonies With Lisa

Custom Ceremonies with Heart and Soul

Your ceremony is the heart and soul of your wedding day and it's also an opportunity to deepen your relationship as we create the ceremony together...


My Tried and true wedding ceremony script, plus much more…

Is a friend or family member officiating your wedding and it’s their first time officiating?

This kit is everything your friend or relative needs to write and officiate your ceremony,
plus expert one-on-one guidance from me, Officiant Lisa, the whole way through.


Ask a friend/relative to officiate, while still having a professional officiant oversee your ceremony process!

Hey there, it’s Officiant Lisa. I’ve performed hundreds of wedding ceremonies, and know the officiation process inside and out. The wedding ceremony script in this kit is the basic starter script that I use to create fully customized, one-of-a-kind ceremonies for each of my couples. You get this basic script, plus a guidebook with instructions for your friend/relative to completely customize it into your unique love story ceremony that invokes tears & laughter, engages guests and facilitates profound connection as you step into your married life.

Take The Easy Route

By using this kit, you’re taking advantage of my hundreds and hundreds (and hundreds) of hours of experience, and my resulting time-tested practices for ceremony-writing, ceremony officiating, rehearsal direction, day-of logistics and tons more. Your friend/relative doesn’t need to patchwork together random scripts from all over the internet, or figure out any of this on their own! He/she can simply follow my guidance and shortcuts. And you can rest easy, knowing it’s taken care of.

What’s Included

For Your Friend/Relative Officiant

• Once-Monthly Q & A Calls To Get Lisa’s Advice
1st Monday each month 5:30 - 6:15 pm MST
Come as often as you like!

• Lisa’s Wedding Ceremony Script Template

• Guidebook: Ceremony Script Writing & Officiating

• Tutorial: Rehearsals & Day-Of Logistics

• Tutorial: Working With Venues, Planners, DJ’s & Other Vendors

For You, The Couple

• Ceremony Prep Calls with Lisa
1st Monday each month 6:30 - 7:15 pm MST

• Vow-Writing Kit

• Workbook To Discover Your Unique Spiritual Style

• Fun & Meaningful Ceremony Prep Activities

• Marriage License How-To

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Real-time group call where your friend/relative officiant can hop on any time to get my advice as he or she writes the ceremony script, plus ask for guidance about rehearsals, day-of logistics, etc. Calls take place on the 1st Monday of every month from 5:30 to 6:15 pm Mountain Standard Time. *These times are scheduled as such, but can change.


This is the basic starter script that I’ve used in over 400 weddings, and which has garnered me reviews that won The Knot Best of Weddings and Wedding Wire Couples’ Choice Awards in the Officiant category several years in a row (you can read reviews at the links provided). When your friend/relative officiant follows the instructions provided, this basic script will become a fully-customized ceremony unique to you.

GUIDEBOOK: CEREMONY SCRIPT-writing & Officiating

Play-by-play guidance to write, incorporate and deliver…

  • A Great Processional Line-up

  • A Fabulous Welcome

  • Acknowledgements

  • Wedding Readings (Choose from my 20-page Wedding Reading Ideas document)

  • Your Love Story

  • I Do’s

  • Vow Exchange

  • Ring Exchange

  • Mini Ceremonies (Sand, Wine Box, Hand Fasting, Rose Exchange & Others)

  • Blessing

  • Pronouncement & Kiss

  • The Presentation

  • Recessional

  • Your Unique Spiritual (or non-spiritual) Style throughout

TUTORIALS: rehearsals, The day-of, working with vendors

Mini tutorials on everything you need to do on the ceremony day itself, plus how/what to communicate with the venue, the planner, the DJ and other vendors. There is also a tutorial on how to run, or be part of, a smooth, efficient and effective rehearsal.


more about what’s included
for the couple


Real time with me on a group calls, plus emails with fun 5-minute activities. I’ll guide you to immerse in the meaning of this passage (it’s different for every couple) and what’s most important to you on your wedding day. By anchoring in these important awarenesses, you will have a powerful relationship-deepening experience not only on your wedding day, but in the months before too! Calls take place the 1st Monday of every month from 6:30 - 7:15 pm. *These times are scheduled as such, but can change.


Since vows tend to be one of the things that stress couples out, I give all my couples a guidebook that walks you through everything you need to know about how to pick or write your vows. There are also pre-written examples to choose from, or a template to get you started if you want to write your own.


I have found over the years that every couple has their own unique recipe for spirituality. You may identify with the term “spiritual but not religious”. Or you may feel connected to a religion. Or you may consider yourself an atheist. Or anything else along the spectrum of these various spiritual styles. The prep documents will help you to articulate what is important (or not important) to you about “something larger that connects us all” so this can be woven into your ceremony.

Marriage license how-to

If you need help with this, a tutorial on how to obtain your marriage license and what you’ll need to do with it after your ceremony.


You will receive a Welcome Email upon purchase, and then you’ll receive
access to the 2020 edition of the Heart & Soul Ceremony Kit!

The Kit is digital, so it’s PDFs and Word documents to guide you.
The documents all live on a password-protected website page for your easy access.
All meeting calls are via conference call.


Try the Kit risk-free. Receive a full refund if you decide
within 7 days of receiving the Kit that it’s not for you.



To chat about the Heart & Soul Ceremony Kit, you can contact me at 303-842-4321 or fill out the form below to send a message. After that, we’ll talk or email, whichever works best for you. Looking forward to getting to know you and your officiant friend/relative! 

I am a non-denominational Colorado wedding officiant and interspiritual family minister for the Denver, Boulder, Front Range, Rocky Mountain and Durango areas. I create one-of-a-kind Customized Ceremonies for full weddings and also offer Colorado Elopement Packages.

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