Heart & Soul Officiant Kit

My Tried And True Wedding Ceremony Script & Pro Tips Guide

Everything you need for an extraordinary ceremony.

(And the confidence to know it will go beautifully ;)


Is a friend or family member officiating for you?

Or maybe you’re the friend/relative who’s been asked.


Tried & True Ceremony That Works

Photo: PJ Van Schalwyck. Golden Gate State Park.

Photo: PJ Van Schalwyck. Golden Gate State Park.

Hey there, it’s Officiant Lisa. I’ve performed hundreds of wedding ceremonies, and know the officiation process inside and out. The wedding ceremony script in this kit is the basic starter script that I use to create one-of-a-kind ceremonies for each of my couples. There is a guidebook with instructions to customize the script into a unique love story ceremony that invokes tears & laughter, engages guests and facilitates profound connection.

Officiant Guidance & Pro Tips

By using this kit, you’re taking advantage of my hundreds and hundreds (and hundreds) of hours of experience, and my resulting time-tested practices for ceremony-writing, ceremony officiating, rehearsal direction, day-of logistics and tons more.

No need to patchwork together random scripts from all over the internet, or figure out any of this on your own. No need to Google around for tips on how to write and perform the ceremony. Simply follow my guidance and shortcuts, and rest easy knowing that it’s taken care of.

What You Get With The Kit

What’s Included For The Friend/Relative Officiant

  • Lisa’s Wedding Ceremony Script Template

• Calls With Lisa To Start & Complete (Optional)

• Guidebook: Ceremony Script Writing & Officiating

• Tutorial: Rehearsals & Day-Of Logistics

• Tutorial: Working With Venues, Planners, DJ’s & Other Vendors

What’s Included For The Couple

• Fun & Meaningful Ceremony Prep Activities

• Ceremony Creation Prep Questions

• Marriage License How-To

Wedding Ceremony Script Template

My tried-and-true ceremony script with everything you need.

This is the basic starter script that I’ve used in over 500 weddings, and which has garnered me reviews that won The Knot Best of Weddings and Wedding Wire Couples’ Choice Awards in the Officiant category several years in a row. Follow the instructions provided, and this basic script will transform into a fully-customized ceremony.

Guidebook: Ceremony Script-Writing & Officiating

Play-by-play guidance to write, incorporate and deliver…

  • A Great Processional Line-up

  • A Fabulous Welcome

  • Acknowledgements

  • Wedding Readings (Choose from my Wedding Reading Ideas document)

  • The Love Story

  • I Do’s

  • Vow Exchange

  • Ring Exchange

  • Mini Ceremonies (Sand, Wine Box, Hand Fasting, Rose Exchange & Others)

  • Blessing

  • Pronouncement & Kiss

  • The Presentation

  • Recessional

  • Unique Spiritual, Religious Or Non-Spiritual Style throughout

Venue - Moss Denver. Photo - Jenna Noelle.

Venue - Moss Denver. Photo - Jenna Noelle.

Tutorials: Rehearsal, The Day-Of, Working With Vendors

All the tips & tricks to connect with the venue and vendors.

Mini tutorials on everything to do on the ceremony day itself, plus how/what to communicate with the venue, the planner, the DJ and other vendors. There is also a tutorial on how to run or be part of a smooth, efficient and effective rehearsal.

Venue - Della Terra Mountain Chateau. Photographer link to be added.

Venue - Della Terra Mountain Chateau. Photographer link to be added.

More About What’s Included For The Couple…

Ceremony Prep Activities

The couple schedules a date night to answer ceremony prep questions and reflect on the things that are most important to them about their wedding ceremony, plus write about some of the quintessential experiences in their couple story. They then share this with the friend/relative officiant. This is all great fuel to write the ceremony script.

Marriage License How-To

A tutorial on how to obtain the marriage license, how to fill it out and what to do with it after the ceremony.

Venue: River Bend. Photographer link to be added.

Venue: River Bend. Photographer link to be added.

About The Optional Coaching Call With Officiant Lisa

One-on-one guidance to complete your script & perform the ceremony.

If you’d like a video or phone coaching call to go with your kit, we’ll hop on a meeting to get you going and excited to write, or to answer questions after you’ve put everything together. I’m there to consult throughout your entire process.

Let’s Get You Writing That Ceremony!

The 2024 Heart & Soul Officiant Kit Is Available.

Within 24 hours of purchase, you will receive a welcome email from me with a link to the kit, and if you chose the coaching call version I’ll send a separate email to schedule your one-hour coaching call. Upon purchase, you should also receive a receipt email from the payment processor immediately.

The kit guidebooks are digital (PDFs and Word documents). You’ll download them from a password-protected page for easy access. Any calls will be in my Zoom room or by phone if video is not your thing :)


The Digital Kit & One-Hour Coaching Call With Officiant Lisa

Or Just The Digital Kit Without Coaching Calls


Due to the digital nature of this product, the Kit is non-refundable upon purchase.

However, if you purchase the kit with coaching calls, the coaching call portion of the fee is refundable if you are not 100% satisfied with your experience.

GOT QUESTIONS?

Sunrise Amphitheater. Brittany Photographs

Sunrise Amphitheater. Brittany Photographs

Any Question Is A Great Question - Ask Away!

If you think the Heart & Soul Ceremony Script & Officiant Kit may be a great fit, but you’re not quite sure, you are welcome to contact me with questions using the form below. Please reach out and I’ll message you back :)

Venue - The Erma J. Photo - Allison Ragsdale

Venue - The Erma J. Photo - Allison Ragsdale